” If … a real/surreal hope. ”

Posted by Dalia Choudhury on May 21, 2010

” If … a real/surreal hope. “

” …If you can dream—and not make dreams your master;

If you can think—and not make thoughts your aim ….(Rudyard Kipling)

” If ” is a very positive word but has a very negative vibration in a person’s life.

For a moment it brings a positive feeling but the positive feelings is very transitory.We humans always tend to achieve the non achievable things even if its beyond our limitations; and say,

‘ if I were him/her!’

‘ if I were a millionaire!’

‘ if this was that!’

‘ if that was this!’

and the ‘If’ wish-list goes on and on till we cease to exist.

‘ If ‘ no doubt brings hope but hope is gilded with a blend of despair & conflict in our hearts and mind.

Why despair and conflict?

‘ If ‘ demoralizes us in the emotional front and conflict makes u emotionally vulnerable.We fall easy prey to situations which is beyond our control but we need to overcome.But again we say,’ if ‘ I were in his/her position,I wouldn’t have faced such situations.

‘If ‘ destroys the I can attitude!

I will not cite any instances as all of you readers might have fallen prey to ‘if’;…if and only if all of you haven’t had thought about ‘if’.

So,please be content with what you are and what you have!Try to face all situations with a happy heart & steady mind because I opine,

‘’struggle is the cause of life!”

There is only strength in ‘I can’ and not in’ if’.

I would want to cite my own example, for the last one year,I’m suffering from neuro and ortho anomalies but I never thought what ‘if’ I were all well?…Life is what it is.

Lastly,I’m penning not anticipating what would happen ‘if’ my writings doesn’t happen to be appealing and acceptable to the mass? But all I know is that I’m acceptable and my writing(s) will be appealing to the mass!

“” WHAT SAY?”